So, as some of you may notice, I haven't been around lately.  I want too let the reason for my adsence be known for the sake of letting people know where I've been but, more importantly, how anything can happen to anyone.  To out it in a nutshell, I was exchanging words with a chick for simply brushing against her in a small shoe store isle, while saying excuse me...  Now, lets get one thing straight...Im not a violent person but Im from NYC, the Bronx and I'm not only intelligent but Im as street smart as it gets.  I've had my share of altercations.  Now, we were exchanging words and unfortunately, the girls intention was to fight.  I was cool with that because if Im stuck in a situation, I can and always have held my own.  BUT, unfortunately again, there were two girls and a guy that I did not know were with her.  This girl was not gonna fight me herself so they jumped me.  What is worse than anything, they proceeded to jump my 58 yr old mother for trying to break up the fight.  My mother endured alot of pain, no blood, but pain.. she had two chunks of hair ripped out of her head.  I sustained a broken nose but not a sinle bruise, scratch ot bump on my body.  Somehow during me when jumped and attacked, once I heard my mothers voice, Adrenaline got me up on my feet from the floor and I cannot remember how at all.  I ran to my mothers aid and the people f course ran away, laughing, throwing my bag and contents all over the store.  Vey small store.  Long story short, I have to have surgery on my nose on Friday and Im going to be out of it for a little while.  They didn't severly break my nose but there is slight curviture, which I want fixed.  Sooo, there is a cae in process, charges being pressed once they are found, wh9ich will not take long.... But I've really been struggling with the vision of my mother is desperation.... I haven't slept well so Im a little out of it. 

Wellll, thats the jist of it.  O and One more thing, these girls were probably no older than 19 or 20 yrs old.  Thats how they get down I guess.  And its sad and so upsetting because this is happening all over the place to young and older woman and young men all over the place.  Gang initiations, pimps sending chicks to do things for the hell of it... etc.  Share your opinions on this if you feel like it.  I think Im going to make this a group topic as well... violence and share our stories in the group because Im sure we can all learn a little something about life from it. 

Luv yall ( and yes through this all, Im still the sexy phone sex op. that I am 24-7!!!)  lol ... although seeing my mom that way was traumatizing, they can't kill my spirit and my faith in karma and my faith in my self growth.

Maritza......xoxoXXX